Every time my husband gets angry, he unleashes on me,telling me to get the F@#K out with the baby. What to do?

We barely knew eachother when I got pregnant, and got married after the baby was born. He expresses extreme distaste for my family and friends (he won't even go to BBQ's or baby birthdays to get to know them). I was fortunate to have been a member of a Country Club as a child and he's told me that I'm a spoiled , trustfunder, who has a sense of entitlement because I've eaten lunch there, as an adult. He's been married and divorced before; he refuses to go to counseling with me, but he did with her. He told me he got divorced because she deserved someone better than him; that he wasn't good enough for her. He then proceeded to tell me that he could not say the same for me - that I'm not good enough for him!! I've lived in his house for 2.5 years with no working stove, and when I told him I wanted a stove to cook in he called me a spoiled, rotten s@#t. I love my child and he LOVES his dad, but we won't talk for weeks at a time and we never laugh even when things are "good". Help.